Word for the day by Christian Education Forum
The Sacrament of Marriage
What therefore God has
joined together, let no man separate.... (v. 9)
This passage raises questions about
marriage and divorce. The context of Jesus' discussion is one of many in the
Gospels in which various authorities try to trap him by asking questions that
had varying answers depending on the factions and schools of thought. This
passage is used in the wedding liturgy as gospel reading and a source of Jesus'
teaching about marriage and family.
Marriage: Grounded in the creative love
of God
The sacramental nature of Marriage is in
the fact that it is instituted by God, not by human. The basic understanding of
family is given in the creation account in which the divine initiative is very
evident. The wedding liturgy also affirms the unseen hands of God, which joins
male and female through holy matrimony. Marriage is a divine call and whoever
enters into it should accept the fact that the love of God is the basis of
their union. Thus the marriage between a man and woman provides space for
companionship and covenantal union through the creative love of God.
Marriage: Not for dissolution, but for
permanence
The oneness in marriage is not a
fantasy, but it is God's very design. The passage begins with a question of
divorce. But Jesus turns the question from the grounds for divorce to the
grounds for union. Here Jesus reframes the debate and reveals God's desire. By
quoting Mosaic law, the Pharisees tried to find out a loophole for dissolution.
Jesus' answer points to the fact that what is permissible, however, should
neither be desirable nor what God intents for God's people. Jesus' intent is
that, the man and woman are no longer two, but one. God's intent for marriage
at creation is wholeness, including oneness of flesh.
Marriage: A Call to live out the Kingdom
of God
Family is a miniature form of the
Kingdom of God. Jesus is more concerned about what is in God's design. So the
answer to the Pharisees' question was not what was permissible under the law
and culture, but what was now possible in the unfolding Kingdom of peace, love
and justice. This demands us to go beyond what is just permissible in the
contemporary world to what was Kingdom enhanced.
Today we live in a world with changing
views of marriage and divorce. Though the rate of divorce is on the increase,
we cannot ritualize it. The responsibility of the Church is to participate in
the ministry of healing and reconciliation. Through this passage, Jesus
re-affirms the fact that the marriage union is permanent and it demands for an
absolute purity of hearts in the wedded life.
Prayer:- O Lord, help us to understand the
divine will in marriage and to create Kingdom of God experience in today's
world through our families.
Thought for the day: Marriage is a covenant not a contract
Rev. K.
E. Geevarghese, Diocesan Secretary, Sinai, NY
Theme for the
week: The sacrament of Marriage